Just chiming in here to echo you all. Perfectionism is a BEAST to unlearn. It’s particularly brutal for women, and even moreso for women of color, who have been told their whole lives that they have to be better than the boys to be taken seriously.

I also hear a hint of FOMO, like you’ll miss that One Perfect Opportunity if you aren’t in all places at all times. Truth is, you’ll have Many Good Opportunities and it’s better to be well-rested and positioned to make the most of those.